How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 30.06.2025 09:58

How does one succeed in life?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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Hangs out with loser friends.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

What I need from you?

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

What should I be looking for when trying out running shoes? Local store lets me try the shoe and jog up and down the block, but they mostly feel the same to me. Is there some feeling or anything else specific I should be looking for?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

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Do not set goals—set systems.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Does not procrastinate.

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That's it for today.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

What’s the worst thing you caught anyone in your family doing?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

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Losing 20kg is a goal.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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Making more friends is a goal.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Procrastinates a lot.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Ask yourself:

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?